http://www.stoptech.com/technical-suppo ... ther-myths
The pedal feel is perfect but BARMY seems to leap from side to side when the brake pedal is pressed hard and/or for longer than a dab. As well as not stopping the car very much, the front brakes also groan like a Groany Thing and it's no longer just driver error or lack of skill that causes me to miss apexes (Jeez, sounding like an proper quick driver here

Based on this article it seems my continuing to expect too much from non-quite-race pads, and overheating them, has now caused enough random transfer of pad material onto the rotors to cause all the symptoms above.
Hopefully Brakes Direct, QFM, and now a 3rd party who is blamed for delays by both the first 2, will finally get the race pads to me PDQ.